Groups, Clicks, Friends

We all have groups of friends. We all met each other by getting to know each other...if that makes sense. but yea we then go on to base our lives around this group of friends. In fact the only thing we strive for sometimes is to make the group happy even at a personal cost to oneself. And once we reach this point we become incapable of helping each other as friends because you always have to ask yourself. What would the group think? You know what forget the "group". Sure its perfectly fine to have tons of friends but don't ever compromise your beliefs or feelings to make a group happy. Diversify your friends. Hang out with the emo's or jock's or goth's. They might not look like you but some of them can affect your life in great ways. and plus some are not as weird or stuck up as you might think. Either way you see it just remember that if a group of friends or even one friend tries to make you do something to make other people happy and it hurts you they probably aren't your friend. And that's the way i see that.